It's never easy on either parties, on children, on anyone that is involved...
It effects you mentally, physically, emotionally, and even spiritually if you even do believe in God or not.
Someone once told me that when you get a divorce, and you break that sacred bond of marriage... you don't leave each other as one person you leave as a half of a person. Because the moment you said "I DO" you immediately became one... and you can never bring that back.
These days it is so easy to throw away a marriage... its just like buying a new car, you can do it in an instance. Which is sad to me. When did our society become sooo numb that no one cares for their marriages anymore... I mean even couples that have been together for 20 - 50 years HOW can you live a whole lifetime together and think the best solution is a divorce. Some may say " Oh I never loved you, or I don't love you anymore, or You don't satisfy me anymore." That's a load of CRAP. It's because you are lazy and you don't want to try to make it work.
You loved that person you had to or you wouldn't have said I DO. I DO is not a temporary statement. MY thoughts are Man or Woman up and be the husband or wife you are suppose to be... stop nagging each other... and look at what you fell in love with in the first place.... seriously
NOW if your spouse is abusing you... he could and most likely will abuse your children... you need to get out of the environment and have him seek help or the issue will progress
If your spouse has been unfaithful and is continuing in that FIRST kill the other THING *ok don't actually kill them* And then win them back. THERE is a reason that happened, and they need to know that you will be with them if you really do want the marriage to work you have to let it go. NOW will you forget it no... are we called to forgive yes.... will it be hard? most definitely.... can it be fixed yes. I have learned when the opportunity arrises you can't do it alone you need the strength of God to get you through that. I know that for a fact. But it can work out.
Lately i have been hearing about couples being in a funk one is dealing with a VERY heated situation, one is just dealing with blahness, one is dealing with confusion, and I am afraid that if I place myself in a place where I am surrounded by that... that funk might weasel its way in to my marriage(kinda did for a second) BUT i swatted it away.. STUPID FUNK leave everyone alone. It's suppose to be summer time not lets screw up everyones life time.
I am afraid for my friend... I am afraid of what is to come of the situation... I can't imagine what is going through their mind right now... all I can do is pray so pray I shall. If you do pray please pray for my friend they really need it right now especially for today and this weekend...
on a different note ... the army is lame and needs to STOP taking my husband away for weeks at a time... k thanks! lol
Sorry for such a blah post but I needed to get this off my chest at how PISSED OFF I AM at certain people for being so flippin retarded ! well you guys have a blessed day!
